Finding strength in loss.
About Us – Losing someone we love can be an incredibly painful experience, but it often serves as a profound catalyst for personal growth and motivation. When we face such heart-wrenching moments, we are forced to confront our own vulnerabilities and limitations. This confrontation can ignite a fire within us, inspiring us to live fully, honor their memory, and pursue dreams we may have previously set aside. The pain can transform into a powerful reminder of the fragility of life, prompting us to take bold steps toward our aspirations, whether it’s pursuing a new career, engaging in meaningful relationships, or advocating for causes that resonate deeply with us.
The legacy of those we’ve lost can profoundly shape our journey forward. Their passions, values, and dreams can become the guiding lights that steer us toward a more purposeful life. For many, the desire to keep their memory alive manifests in acts of service, creativity, or activism. This drive not only helps us process our grief but also fosters a sense of connection to our loved ones, encouraging us to make a positive impact in the world. In this way, loss transforms into a source of inspiration, compelling us to honor our loved ones by striving for excellence and embracing the opportunities life presents. Through this lens, grief can become a powerful motivator, urging us to live more authentically and passionately.
Inspired Words From Our Founder
To my Son Kae’Mon,
Life has its way of surprising us in mysterious ways. I had no idea that I would only have you in my life for 17 short years. I am thankful for those 17 years although I wish I’d have more time with you. I remember when I took you swimming at the Eastside pool. You were so scared but you trusted me and you held my neck so tight as I walked you around in the water. It was all about us. There are so many memories we’ve shared together it’s hard to just pick one.
The one that stands out the most is when you got on a plane for the first time. We were headed to Hawaii. You were so excited to be on a plane. When we landed you thought Hawaii was so beautiful you was like “I could live here.” You loved to explore the island by going on nature hikes/walks with me and your sister. When we found that rock pool you thought it was so beautiful. You admired the Atmosphere and all the beautiful colors as well as the different shapes of the trees. You enjoyed feeling free and expressed your appreciation of the time you spent with your family.
Kae’Mon I admired you so much – especially the way you articulated your words. You had a way getting people to see a different perspective (your point of views of life). You were so far advanced than any other 17-year old I knew. I learned something from you everyday. You’d always express that you wanted to be an Engineer but was indecisive about what kind of engineer you wanted to be.
Once your cousin Scooter introduced you to making beats you immediately knew that music production was your passion. You had me buying all sorts of things to elevate your growth and understanding. I loved how your passion for music grew to another level, surpassing your cousins’ abilities. You were now teaching him things. The way you could mix a beat in less than fifteen minutes was impressive. I never knew you could rap until your brother played a song for me and I was like, “Wow, he sounds like Kae’Mon”. You were like: “Mom, that is me” with a big smile on your face. I was blown away at how good you wrote and produced the song. You admired your brother for how he inspired you to rap. I enjoyed listening to your beats. You would share your beats with me frequently. We would talk about you starting a career and getting an engineering degree in music/sound production.
You also talked about joining the Military and boxing for the military like your big cousin Khawaun.
Kae’Mon, it’s so hard for me to go on everyday knowing that you’re not here. My life will NEVER be the same. I will always think about you, miss you and love you. Until our souls are connected again I will live the rest of my life for you!
— Love, Your Mommie 4 Ever
Reflections From Others
“Growing up, Kae’mon would often go on trips with his family. I had never traveled myself, but I always dreamed of it. To make me feel included, he’d take pictures of the sky and the most breathtaking views – just for me. He’d describe them with such vivid words that I felt I could see what he saw. In those moments, it felt like I was right there with him.
Now that he’s gone, I often find myself looking up at the sky and talking to him about us. It brings me comfort—it helps me feel close to him, especially in these hard times.
Sometimes I catch myself wondering what the view looks like from where he is now. Is it as beautiful as I imagine? I wish I could hear him describe it one more time.
Since Kae’Mon’s passing, I’ve grown closer to nature. I see the world differently now. Everything feels more vibrant, more meaningful like I’m seeing life through his eyes. He had a way of making everything feel special.
Kae’mon was always there when I needed him. Sometimes, he’d call me out of the blue, and we’d sit in silence together—no words, just the peace of knowing someone was there. That was enough. There were times I didn’t even have to say anything; he just knew when something was wrong. He’d show up, check in, and be there no questions asked. He always wanted to know about us and how we were doing – a true friend.
I need him now more than ever. Kae’mon was the kind of person you could count on at any hour, no matter what either of us was going through. I always knew I had him, and he had me even when I felt like I had no one else. He had the kindest heart, always knew how to lift me up, even in my darkest times, and could make me smile when I didn’t think I could.
I love Kae’mon more than words can express. He saw something in me, and I saw something in him. We used to talk about how we couldn’t wait to grow up—but now that I’m getting there, I find myself wishing I could go back. I’d give anything to relive those moments with him, to laugh again, to feel that kind of love and friendship just one more time.”
— Cherish
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